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    What happens when a parent breaks a court order?

    What happens when a parent breaks a court order? When parents cannot decide arrangements for their children once they have separated the court can issue a child arrangements order to clarify a child’s living arrangements. 
    This order is legally binding, and if a parent breaches it they will be in contempt of court which could mean fines, enforcement orders and even imprisonment (although this is extremely rare).
    If this is happening to you, what legal options do you have? Rachel Fisher from Stowe Family Law in Bristol joins us with advice on what happens when a parent breaks/breaches a court order?
    What can I do if my partner breaks or breaches a court order? 
    If you are experiencing difficulties with a child arrangements order, including minor or major breaches, it is advisable to keep a diary of these. This means you will have a clear picture of the difficulties you have faced.
    Then I would advise my client to try and discuss the breach (s) with the other parent in the hope that they can reach an agreement without having to return to court. The court process can be stressful, timely and expensive. 
    Another option is to use mediation as a neutral forum with a third-party to try and resolve the disagreements. 
    However, in some cases, it is not possible to discuss or agree on arrangements and therefore, the matters must be returned to the court to enforce the original order.
    How do you enforce a court order?

    An application for enforcement is made on a Form C79. Enforcement proceedings must be dealt with without delay and if possible, listed before the judge that dealt with matters previously. A hearing will be listed within 20 working days of the application been issued. 

    What will the court consider when deciding to enforce an order? 
    Once the court receives an application to enforce a child arrangements order, they will consider the following: 

    Whether the facts for the alleged non-compliance are agreed or whether it is necessary to conduct a hearing to establish them

    The reasons for any non-compliance

    The wishes and feelings of the child

    Whether any advice is required from Cafcass on the appropriate way forward 

    Assess and manage any risks of making further or other child arrangements orders

    Whether a separated parents information programme or referral for dispute resolution is appropriate

    Whether an enforcement order may be appropriate and

    The welfare checklist

    What are the penalties for a breaching a court order? 
    At the top of all child arrangements order, there is a warning notice that sets out the consequences to both parties about what will happen if they do not comply with the order.
    There are several powers available to the court when considering an application to enforce and these are as follows:

    Referral of both parents to a separated parents information programme or mediation

    Unpaid work requirement of between 40 and 200 hours where the court is satisfied beyond a reasonable doubt that one party has failed to comply with a provision of the order

    Committal to prison (in very rare/serious cases)

    Changing which party the child or children live with (in very extreme/serious cases)/variation of the child arrangements order to include a more defined order

    A fine

    An order for compensation for financial loss

    A contact enforcement order or suspended enforcement order

    Can you get a court order changed?
    If circumstances change once a child arrangements order has been made, then it might be necessary to ask the court to vary the order if an agreement cannot be reached between the parents. 
    You will need to complete a C100 application form and explain why you are asking the court to vary the current child arrangements order. 
    The court will only vary a child arrangements order if they consider it to be in the best interests of the child to do so.
    Can court orders be overturned?
    It is possible to appeal decisions made by the family court, and I would advise anyone considering this to take legal advice on their individual circumstances.
    What can I do if I think my child is at risk? 
    If you consider that your child is at risk, then you should seek urgent legal advice on the steps you can take to safeguard your child. 
    Depending on your circumstances, it may be necessary to make an urgent application to the court.
    Get in touch 
    If you would like any advice on what happens when a parent breaks a court order please do contact our Client Care Team to speak to one of our specialist children lawyers here.  More

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    Best Summer Jobs for Teens

    School is over and summer is finally here. Your teenagers are ready to enjoy some fun in the sun and they absolutely should. Summertime is also a great time for them to learn about money management and responsibility. Getting a summer job is one of the best ways for teens to begin to gain independence […]
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    The calm after the storm: How to help children reintegrate back into the world post lockdown.

    Luisa Williams, CEO & Founder from My Family Psychologist joins us on the blog with her advice on how to help children reintegrate back into the world post lockdown. 
    There is no denying the impact that Covid-19 has had across the nation but it has particularly affected our children. 
    From talking to parents and friends, some children have adapted better than others. For some, they have experienced anxiety and a sense of uncertainty, especially when it comes to knowing what is expected of them.  
    As lockdown restrictions start to ease up, parents are left wondering how to make children feel as safe and calm as possible. 
    It is important that children are supported when entering this ‘new normal’ that the government keep telling us about. It may feel like there is a long way to go until we resume a sense of ‘normality’, however, we need to ask the question:

    What we can do as parents to support our children as they take the next steps into their new routines?

    Here are some tips on how to help children reintegrate back into the world post lockdown. 
    Educate yourself and get yourself up to date with any changes to guidelines before discussing this with your child. 
    Get your information from reliable sources. Check with www.gov.uk and the BBC for updates on any guidance. These are updated regularly to help parents ensure that they have all the necessary information.  
    Explain to your child about lockdown restrictions and what these mean. Explain that some things may be different and that it is not something that they need to be afraid of. Ask them if they understand and encourage them to ask questions. They don’t need to know everything; just keep it appropriate for the age of the child. 
    Reassure them that it is okay to feel worried or anxious. Ask them to keep a diary about how they are feeling or a worry jar where they can put questions in that they may have. This will encourage them to reflect on how they are feeling. Remind them that the rules that are in place are to keep us safe and that ‘now is not forever’.  
    Start getting them back into a routine.  
    During the lockdown, it is likely that their pre-COVID daily routine has been thrown out of the window and they may be getting up later and going to bed later. Gradually introduce earlier bedtimes and waking up times, especially as they get closer to their school return date. This will encourage a sense of normalcy.  
    Start going out for walks or to places where they may see other people so that they get used to being outside of the home environment. Many children may have opted to stay inside during the pandemic so may find it hard to be around people they don’t know. Get your children used to seeing people wearing masks and PPE and encourage them that this what some people are choosing to do in order to keep others safe.  
    Give children a choice to pick out a face mask so that they feel like they are wearing something they like. With new rules coming into place about wearing masks when shopping, the idea may feel uncomfortable to children as it can be restrictive.  Check out sites such as www.amazon.co.uk where they have a selection of child-friendly masks to choose from.  
    Spend quality time with your children doing something positive.
    This will help take a break from any anxieties they may have. This will also give you an opportunity to talk to your child and gives them a safe space to talk if they so wish to.  
    Encourage your children in a ‘routine’ of good hygiene. Washing their hands regularly when needed to the point where it becomes second nature rather than a strict regime. This will help make them less afraid and more mindful of looking after themselves. If your child is particularly health-conscious or has health anxiety, get a little pack together for them with things such as hand sanitizer, tissues and pocket wipes.  
    Encourage your children to think positively about what they are looking forward to in the future to reinforce a future-focused approach. Discuss what they may want to do in the future or where they may want to go. Make some plans with your child or children.
    Get in touch
    If you would like more advice on how to help children reintegrate back into the world post lockdown and find that your child or family members are experiencing anxiety post-lockdown and feel that they need some more support, please get in touch with My Family Psychologist and see how we can help. We work with children, parents and families to offer support when it is needed most, especially during these difficult times.  
    Visit the My Family Psychologist website here.
    Family law advice 
    If you would like any family law advice please do contact our Client Care Team to speak to one of our specialist family lawyers here.  More

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    Holly Rampy Baird Discusses COVID-19’s Implications on Divorce Cases & Hearings on WFAA’s Good Morning Texas

    COVID-19 has implicated almost every element of our daily lives, and complicated domestic situations and divorce are no exception. Orsinger, Nelson, Downing & Anderson partner Holly Rampy Baird appeared on WFAA’s Good Morning Texas to discuss how couples are moving forward with their divorce cases amidst the pandemic. View the interview here:
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    Holly Rampy Baird Discusses COVID-19’s Implications on Divorce Cases & Hearings on WFAA’s Good Morning Texas

    COVID-19 has implicated almost every element of our daily lives, and complicated domestic situations and divorce are no exception. Orsinger, Nelson, Downing & Anderson partner Holly Rampy Baird appeared on WFAA’s Good Morning Texas to discuss how couples are moving forward with their divorce cases amidst the pandemic. View the interview here:
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    Tips For Teaching Kids Responsibility

    The primary task for us as parents is to raise responsible and competent adult human beings. Losing sight of this job is a disservice to us and our children. In failing to teach kids responsibility, we communicate to our child that we don’t think he or she is smart enough or capable enough to do an age-appropriate task. This robs them of the opportunity to do real work and internalize that they are capable, important and valued. Teaching responsibility to kids leads to happier, more capable adults.
    Are You Using Methods Guaranteed to Fail?

    A lot of us go wrong when we think that we are “teaching” responsibility. We might nag at our daughters to pick up their dirty laundry. We might yell at our sons when they forget to pass on a phone message. It’s easy to let frustration get the better of us in these situations, especially if it is the millionth time you’ve picked up dirty socks from the living room floor!  We need to keep in mind that nagging and yelling do not teach anything except bad interpersonal behaviors – and the children will reflect these bad behaviors right back to us, probably in the form of whining and temper tantrums.
    Like The Paparazzi, Kids Are Always Watching
    All of us have our own home-grown paparazzi, also known as our kids. They watch every move we make…and then, in Academy Award-winning performances, they imitate us. This includes how we handle our own responsibilities. They see us cook dinner, do the laundry, go to work. Granted, sometimes they think these are our hobbies and may need to be reminded that folding their underwear is not, in fact, your favorite pastime!
    It is our job to help our children grow into adult-level responsibility, and we have about 18 years to do this. Just like responsibility is a given in our lives, it should be a given in theirs. Being responsible is what we do, who we are – just a fact of life.
    Teaching Kids Responsibility In An Age Appropriate Way
    The key to making responsibility part of our child’s being is starting early. Even a toddler can have responsibilities she can do, with supervision.  Here are some basic examples of things young children can do to become more responsible, and contribute to a healthy family environment.
    Toddler Responsibility
    A toddler can:
    • Help with basic laundry task.  What child doesn’t want to help you match up socks?!• Put her empty cup on the dinner table; she can even help to set the table, or at least where she sits.• Put all the toys and blocks in the bin after playing with them.• Push chairs back under the table after finishing a meal, or coloring a picture.
    Responsibilities for 3- to 5-Year-Olds
    Preschoolers can:
    Help you dust the furniture, at least the lower pieces of furniture that don’t have much clutter.
    Help you fold and put away her clean laundry; this can help to learn colors; you may even make up some new names!
    Pull weeds in the garden, and plant new flowers.
    Pet and brush the dog; that’s a win-win situation for both!
    Responsibility for 6- to 10-Year Olds
    Older children can be responsible for:
    Putting her clothes in the hamper, and later hanging up or putting clean clothes away.
    Keeping his room neat, including vacuuming.
    Helping you rake leaves (and sometimes you just have to let them jump back in that raked-up pile!)
    Making herself breakfast, but nothing fancy.
    Feeding and giving fresh water to your pets.

    You can not escape the responsibility of tomorrow by evading it today. -Abraham Lincoln

    Teach, Rinse, Repeat
    As children grow and mature, the level of responsibility we give them can increase. But even as they get older, we need to keep in mind that they are still practicing and won’t always get it right. When the inevitable slip happens, I take a deep breath and remember most of the time everybody does the best they can. Then I point him towards the vacuum and remind him for the 100th time not to track mud across the carpet.  I know that repetition is the key to developing the good habits that will serve my kids well the rest of their lives.
    I hope you found these tips for teaching children responsibility useful. What methods do you find most effective for teaching kids responsibility?
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    Is my child ‘normal’?

    Luisa Williams, CEO & Founder from My Family Psychologist joins us on the blog with advice for any parent who has asked the question, is my child ‘normal’? I have rarely met a parent who has not at one stage, wondered if their child or their development was ‘normal’.  And no doubt, many of you […] More