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    Self-isolating in an abusive relationship

    Most households in the UK will be closely following the developing situation with COVID -19 with worry and concern. In a time where people are being encouraged to isolate at home, my thoughts turned to many of my existing clients, male and female, who may be self-isolating in an abusive relationship. Having practised family law […] More

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    Don’t get along with your husband’s family?

    In-laws – or outlaws? Have you been married for years, yet still can’t find a way to get along with your husband’s family?  In-law troubles are as old as marriage itself and unlikely to vanish anytime soon. Sometimes it’s hard enough keeping the peace with your own family, never mind trying to deal with your […] More

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    7 relationship resolutions you need to make

    Make the new year an opportunity to give your relationship a fresh, fabulous start. Tired of dealing with the same old problems in your relationship? It’s time to let go of all the negativity and make a resolution for improving life with your partner. Goal-setting isn’t only for you as an individual – it’s equally […] More

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    Keeping secrets in a relationship

    It’s not always necessary to tell your partner everything. But when does secrecy become toxic?  Most couples have a few things they keep from each other – the exact amount of money they earn, the back-up savings account they have – there’s nothing wrong with it and it helps maintain some independence, even within your […] More

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    Domestic abuse prosecutions without the victim’s support

    Evidence-led domestic abuse cases HM Crown Prosecution Service Inspectorate (‘HMCPSI’) and HM Inspectorate of Constabulary and Fire & Rescue Services (‘HMICFRS’) have published a joint report on ‘evidence-led’ domestic abuse cases (i.e. where the victim of domestic abuse decides not to support a prosecution), finding that the handling of such prosecutions requires improvement. OK, I […] More

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    New protection against stalking

    Protection against stalking: I’ve long thought that to be the victim of stalking must be a particularly horrendous thing. To be constantly in fear and to have your personal life invaded by a stranger is a terrible blight to endure. Sometimes, of course, the victim can suffer for years. And on some occasions, as we […] More

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    I agree with Sally Challen: education is the key to dealing with domestic abuse

    Dealing with domestic abuse: Regular readers of this blog, and indeed regular followers of national news, will be aware of the Sally Challen case. Mrs Challen killed her husband Richard in 2010, by striking him repeatedly with a hammer. She was subsequently convicted of murder and sentenced to life imprisonment with a minimum tariff of […] More