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    Family Law in 2024

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    As we come to the end of another year, our lawyers reflect on some of the changes (or lack of!) in family law in 2024, and the impact on people going through family law issues.
    Julian Hawkhead, Senior Partner
    Can it really be a year since I last wrote an introduction to the Stowe Family Law end of year blog? In many respects, time has flown by so quickly, but sadly, as my colleagues discuss in the following articles, where the need for reform in key areas of family law is concerned, progress is not as fast.
    Firstly a few words about Stowe Family Law. It has been quite a year for the firm as we continue increase our capability to support more people as they require family law services increasing the number of specialist lawyers across more locations nationwide. Throughout 2024 we opened more offices taking our total number of locations to 94 and we now have 205 specialist family lawyers. We also said goodbye to Livingbridge as our former partners with whom we have achieved so much over the last 7 years and we welcomed our new partners Investcorp to support us through the next exciting chapter. We have some really exciting plans so watch this space!
    With a new Labour Government in place, now is the time to prioritise a legal system that is there to protect the vulnerable and is readily accessible to those in need. It is an essential foundation for a stable and safe society.
    In other areas of the family law world, we have seen an increased impetus to keep couples out of the court system and encourage them to adopt alternative routes to reaching a resolution whether that is mediation or other forms of dispute resolution. The rules that have been introduced feel more stick (through costs sanctions) than carrot but there is no doubt that a resolution reached consensually is longer lasting and less damaging to all parties.
    The need for rights for couples living together without a legal marriage or civil partnership continues to be an area of focus for family law professionals, although there seems to be diminishing hope that the Government will prioritise reform here. A clear legal framework is necessary to define what happens when cohabiting relationships end is much needed.
    I hope you enjoy reading these short articles written by my colleagues and may I take this opportunity to wish you a very happy Christmas season and a healthy and prosperous 2025.
    Tamara Adams on development in fertility law
    This year has not seen as much progress in fertility law as we, as family law professionals, would have hoped. However, some steps have been taken with the amendment to the Human Fertilisation and Embryology Act 1990. Previously female same-sex couples had to undergo screening for infectious diseases such as hepatitis B, C and rubella which could cost up to £1000 and was prohibitive for many. As of November this year, the screening requirements for same-sex couples are on par with those for heterosexual couples as these requirements have been relaxed. In addition, same-sex couples where one or both partners have an undetectable viral load for HIV will be allowed to pursue IVF treatment.
    The ONS reported that women had an average of 1.44 children between 2022-23, the lowest recorded birth rates. Several reasons have been touted for this drop, including the impact of Covid-19, and social changes with women delaying having children to pursue a career. In this context, there is a need for change in fertility laws to make various methods of alternative journeys to parenthood more accessible and the legal process frictionless.
    Unfortunately, we are still awaiting key changes in surrogacy laws which many family law professionals hope to see. The complexities of legal parenthood being assigned to the birth mother, rather than the intended parents, followed by a lengthy process of transferring parenthood, is complicated, costly and stressful, and can be a deterrent. Recently, Baroness Meron met with the Law Commission to discuss the recommendations made in the Commission’s report which was released in March 2023. It is hoped that the Government will release a response soon, putting surrogacy on the agenda.
    I hope to see more change in 2025, particularly in surrogacy, to protect intended parents and make their journey to parenthood a joyful one.

    Ciara Pugh on the need for cohabitation rights
    Taking the media by storm this year was the fall in marriage rates, as reported by ONS, with rates falling to 49.4%, the first time they have dropped below 50%. Although same-sex marriages increased, and there were an estimated 167,000 people in same-sex marriages in 2022, overall marriage seems to be being replaced by couples choosing to live together as cohabitees.
    The fall in marriage rates reflects a changing society, and the need for the law to maintain pace with shifting priorities and family structures. There are a variety of reasons that could be attributed to the decline. For example, these ONS figures are from 2022, where the impact of the Covid pandemic was still being felt on the wedding industry. Nevertheless, the way we view marriage and relationships is constantly changing, and couples are either delaying or rejecting marriage entirely.
    What this does mean is more people are choosing to live together as cohabitees rather than getting married. Although cohabitation is the fastest growing family type in the UK, as it stands there is little to no financial protection for cohabitees should the couple break up or one party die without leaving a Will. This is the case regardless of length of time living together, or if the couple shares children (though there are some financial claims that can be brought for the benefit of children).
    Family lawyers have been campaigning for cohabitation reform for years. In October 2023, a glimmer of hope appeared in the form of Labour MP Emily Thornberry’s promise to make cohabitation a priority should the Labour Party take hold of Government. Disappointingly, such a reform has failed to land on the Government’s agenda as yet, leaving many individuals vulnerable should their relationship end.
    However, the fall in marriage rates has renewed calls for cohabitation reform. I hope that in the not-too-distant future, there will be financial protection for cohabitees. This could be in the form of an opt-in or opt-out system where couples choose whether they wish to have rights. These are unlikely to be the same as those afforded to married couples, but financial protection is needed to protect vulnerable individuals. Our new Labour Government is confronted with an exciting opportunity to finally reform this highly problematic area of family law and let’s hope we see some change!

    Rachael Lodge on the drive to avoid court
    The Family Justice System has been working hard over the past few years to reduce acrimony in divorce and family proceedings, and to ensure families going through relationship breakdowns have the best chance at setting themselves up for a more positive future. This is all within the context of a struggling court system which is underfunded and over-stretched.
    As such, one of the most significant changes in 2024 was an update to the Family Procedure Rules. These are a set of rules followed by courts nationwide which govern practice and standardise court procedures. In April of this year, the rules were updated to place a greater focus on reaching amicable agreements, using non-court dispute resolutions (NCDR) such as mediation, collaborative family law and arbitration.
    The main changes are a wider definition of what NCDR means, broadening the scope beyond just mediation, and including methods such as arbitration, collaborative divorce and private financial dispute resolution hearings.
    Divorcing couples will now need to actively engage in NCDR, or provide a valid reason why this is not possible by laying out their views in open correspondence. Parties now have to express why NCDR is inappropriate in their case using the new FM5 form (for example, due to safeguarding concerns), where before this was simply a tick box exercise. The exemptions for not taking part in NCDR are more limited, and failure to engage may result in cost sanctions. We have already seen this acted on by Judges in several cases in the latter half of the year.
    Although courts could previously adjourn proceedings where Judges felt NCDR would be appropriate, they can now do this without the agreement of the parties.

    The hope is that moving forward, parties family law issues will be able to find constructive ways to resolve differences instead of using the courts. This will not only give the family courts more breathing room but will mean families can build a better post-separation future. The Ministry of Justice is undertaking a wider push to support families by ensuring they are aware of all the options available to them and supported throughout.
    Emily Davies on the Pathfinder Pilot
    The Pathfinder Pilot was initially introduced in March 2022, launched in a small number of family courts, to trial improved information sharing between services like local authorities with the courts. The pilot was a response to a review into the Family Justice System that highlighted how the adversarial nature of family courts and the system itself worsened conflict and further traumatised domestic abuse victims and children. Almost three years later, now is a great opportunity to reflect on the change and development in the pilot itself, and the impact it has had on families.
    The pilot model requires detailed investigations to be conducted by Cafcass – the independent body advising family courts what is safe for, and in the best interests of, the children. Cafcass will prepare a Child Impact report, where they have an opportunity to hear from the child/children before the first hearing to better understand their worries, wishes and feelings, and to evaluate the potential impact of the ongoing family law proceedings, on the child/children involved. Cafcass also investigates any welfare issues, allegations of domestic abuse, and identifies whether non-court dispute resolution would be appropriate. The pilot aims to ensure that children of separating parents are listened to throughout the process, and are given more opportunities to express themselves, as well as improve the experience of survivors of domestic abuse.
    Furthermore, the Pathfinder scheme is working to minimise the trauma domestic abuse victims (and their children) experience going through the justice system when separating from their abusive partner. The improved information sharing through the holistic multi-agency approach and early onset information gathering, means victims do not have to be re-traumatised by telling their story multiple times.
    February 2024 saw the end of the initial phase of the pilot, and it was then rolled out to two further locations, Birmingham, and South-East Wales, ahead of a planned national rollout. Although the national rollout has yet to be confirmed, the progress made by the initial phases of the pilot have been positive. The change in process is being carefully monitored by legal professionals, as well as policymakers and Cafcass.
    At present, it is apparent that a national rollout is not yet on the cards. However, I hope a review into the pilot will be produced in 2025, looking ahead to a nationwide implementation as the family justice system moves towards less adversarial, non-court-based approaches.
    Read more about the Pathfinder Pilot.
     Jake Mitchell on AI and Family Law
    Technology is evolving, and in 2024 we have felt its impact in the legal world. Some of the fastest moving tech is the use of Artificial Intelligent (AI) and its usage in family law.
    AI is not robots, but computer simulation. In law, language models like ChatGPT have an enormous amount of data, phrases and sentences plugged in to predict “what comes next?” in a sentence, forming complex answers. AI can answer questions, but you should take care it is not always accurate. You may have noticed Google’s new AI Overview, which takes a question you’ve searched, and pulls information from various top performing sites to give you a quick answer without needing to click on a particular website. This is helpful to an extent but should not be taken as ‘gospel’ as if the source AI takes from is wrong, so is the answer.
    In family law, AI can be used to make our processes more efficient, saving the lawyer time and saving client money. AI can answer questions outside of office hours, check your documentation for spelling/grammar errors, summarise documents and even take a first-draft note of meetings. It can summarise long documents and organise your thoughts and papers. AI can also help with legal research, but beware, in the US there have been instances of AI entirely inventing cases.
    This is likely only the beginning of some more impressive changes. However, as the technology grows we need to be ever more mindful of the pitfalls. Errors are common, answers not always correct, and oversight of activity is very important. AI won’t replace everything your lawyer can do, and family law involves supporting people going through deeply personal, emotional issues, where empathy and understanding is required. AI cannot replace this, but it can be part of the team.
    Sarah Scriven on Domestic Abuse Protection Notice Pilot
    On 27th November 2024, domestic abuse protection notices (DAPN) and domestic abuse protection orders (DAPO) were introduced by way of a pilot scheme, expected to last one year. It is hoped that these measures will provide better protection to victims of domestic abuse.
    The pilot is taking place in certain areas: London boroughs of Croydon, Sutton and Bromley and Greater Manchester. The perpetrator must live in one of these areas.  The British Transport Police are also able to apply for DAPOs.
    A Domestic Abuse Protection Notice (DAPN) is issued by police to a perpetrator to provide immediate protection for victims of all forms of domestic abuse, even where there is not enough evidence for a criminal charge. The perpetrator and victim must be personally connected. The police must consider that there are reasonable grounds to believe that a person has been abusive to the other person. The DAPN contains specific instructions to the perpetrator, for example not to attend the victim’s home. If the instructions aren’t followed, the perpetrator could be arrested. If the police issue a DAPN, they will also apply for a DAPO.
    A DAPO can also be made by the court to protect victims from all forms of domestic abuse. This order may be made by the court during ongoing criminal family or civil proceedings.  Applications may be made by the police, a victim or by someone not directly involved known as a third party, for example a friend, family member or social workers. Breaching a DAPO is a criminal offence.
    Prior to the pilot, the police could issue domestic violence protection orders, but these only last for 48 hours. A victim could make an application to the family court for a non-molestation and/or occupation order and in the criminal court, a restraining order could be made.
    The introduction of the DAPN and DAPO give victims, but also organisations such as the police and social workers and third parties such as a friend and family an avenue to use to seek protection and it will no longer be down to the victim to make the relevant application themselves.
    A DAPO has no maximum duration, and the court will consider how long it needs to last to protect the victim. A non-molestation will usually last for between 6 to 12 months but can last longer in exceptional circumstances.
    If the pilot is successful, DAPNs and DAPOs are expected to replace domestic violence protection orders. It is hoped they will give police a tool that is more effective and provides longer term protection to victims.
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    Final Word
    I hope you have found this wide array of topics interesting and should you want to find out more about any of the topics we have covered here or any other family law issues please do not hesitate to get in touch.
    With best wishes for the festive season,
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      Co-parenting at Christmas: Tips for a peaceful holiday season

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      Co-parenting at Christmas often means juggling chaos, compromise, and creative scheduling, all with the added pressure to keep the peace and make the holidays special. Here are our tips for the weeks ahead.
      From working out holiday plans together and navigating more frequent interactions with your ex, to involving new partners and maintaining ties with your former in-laws, the festive season can feel like a tricky balancing act.
      While it’s natural to feel some stress, a little planning, flexibility, and a positive approach can go a long way in creating a Christmas that works well for everyone, especially the children.
      Putting the children first
      We can all agree, Christmas is about the children, and it’s essential to keep their needs and happiness at the forefront of your plans. Whether this is your first Christmas after divorce, or you’ve had a few years to get used to things, to make the season easier for them there are a few simple steps you can take.
      Agree on a shared plan
      Work together with your ex to ensure the children can enjoy time with both of you without feeling rushed or pulled between two homes. Having a clear and joint plan not only helps avoid confusion and conflict for co-parents, but for children too who can feel prepared and safe in the knowledge they’ll get time with both parents. This might mean splitting the day between both homes or agreeing on specific days for things like Christmas dinner or gift exchanges. Read more about dividing Christmas with your ex.
      Balance traditions with flexibility
      If you have cherished family traditions, it’s understandable that you’ll want to keep them going, but a little flexibility can go a long way. Discuss the traditions most important to you with your co-parent and agree a realistic way to divide them. The key is to avoid putting pressure on the kids to “choose” one tradition or family over the other, ensuring that they have special moments with both sides of the family.
      Reinvent your Christmas
      Christmas is the perfect time to start new traditions. Forget about the rule book and focus on the things that will truly bring your family joy. Whether it’s replacing turkey with your favourite foods on Christmas day or creating fresh ways to celebrate with the people who matter to you most now, these changes can redefine the holidays so they reflect your family as it is now.

      Managing more time with your ex
      Spending extra time with your ex during the holiday season can be unavoidable but no less challenging, especially if your relationship is still difficult. Focusing on common parenting goals can help keep things civil and make co-parenting at Christmas a little easier.

      Focus on the children’s needs
      When communication is focused on the well-being of your children, it’s easier to prevent conversations from slipping into old patterns and disputes. If it helps, keep things business-like and to the point. Keep things on track by agreeing on specific times to discuss important matters. Confirm the plans you’ve made in a message or email is a good way to check you’re on the same page and prevent future misunderstandings.
      Set boundaries
      While spending time with your ex over Christmas might be on the cards, you don’t have to be best friends. Setting clear and respectful boundaries can help keep things positive and productive. Give yourself a set time to leave so you’re in control of the situation, and if needed, stay in the same room but keep some physical space. Focus your conversations on the present and the needs of the children, avoiding any past issues that could cause tension.
      Remember the bigger picture
      Even if you’re feeling frustrated, reminding yourself that your children will benefit from their parents’ cooperation can make these moments feel more manageable.
      Including new partners
      The arrival of a new partner in your life can bring both excitement and a few challenges, especially when it comes to family holidays. Whether it’s you with the new partner or your ex, this change can stir up a mix of emotions and make things feel a little uncertain.
      Communicate early
      If you’re planning to have your new partner involved in any holiday activities, it’s best to have an open and honest conversation with your ex in advance. Talk about how you plan to spend the day and ensure that your ex is comfortable with the arrangement.
      Be mindful of the children
      Children may need time to adjust to your new partner, especially if the relationship is still new. Keep an eye on how the kids are handling the situation and give them space to process these changes. The key is not to force interactions but to allow things to evolve naturally.
      Respect boundaries
      Whether it’s you or your ex with a new partner, respecting each other’s relationships is important, even if it’s challenging. You get to decide how much or how little you want to interact with your ex’s new partner, all while keeping things calm and positive for your children.
      Navigating the Conversation: Telling Your Children About Your New Partner After Divorce

      Spending time with ex-in-laws
      Another challenge during the holidays for separated parents is seeing their former in-laws. There’s often a lot of history involved, and you will likely see less of them now you’ve separated.  Whether you’re spending time with them out of tradition, for the sake of the children, or simply because you still get along, it can be a delicate balance.
      Respect their role in your children’s lives
      Your ex-in-laws are still important figures in your children’s lives, and it’s often in their best interests for you to maintain a relationship with them. If possible, encourage your children to spend time with their grandparents or other important relatives on your ex’s side of the family.
      Keep things civil
      Even if you and your ex’s family aren’t as close as you once were, it’s worthwhile remaining civil. After all, the holiday season is a time for harmony, and increasing tensions won’t help anyone. Remember, you’re there for the kids and their happiness, not for any personal vendettas.
      Set boundaries as needed
      If spending time with ex-in-laws feels emotionally difficult, be honest with yourself and them. It’s okay to politely decline an invitation to join your in-laws if you feel it would be too stressful.
      Could Parallel Parenting be right for you and your co-parent?
      For some co-parents, limiting interaction or sticking rigidly to tried and tested arrangements is the only way to keep things calm and manageable. When past tensions or difficult dynamics make communication challenging or impossible, it’s perfectly okay to set boundaries that reduce contact whilst still allowing children to see each parent.
      Read more about parallel parenting, a co-parenting approach often recommended after high conflict divorce.
      Useful links
      Blended families and stepparents: A beginners guide

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      Legal Q&A: “We’re separating after 16 years, what are our rights?”

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      Family Lawyer Judit Kerese answers key questions about unmarried separation and shares guidance on how separating parents can secure and future-proof their agreements, even without the formal legal framework of a divorce.

      “After 16 years of marriage, we’re separating and unsure what our legal rights are. We have two children, aged 7 and 10, and their happiness and stability are our top priority. We both work full-time and we own our home. We’re considering birdnesting to minimise disruption for the kids. The family home is our main asset, so we need to figure out how to make this financially feasible. We’re on good terms, but navigating the practicalities of separation is feeling overwhelming.”

      Q: Does not being married affect our legal rights in separation?
      A: First of all, I completely understand how overwhelming separation must feel, especially after sharing a life and family for so long. With some guidance we can help to ease the strain on you both.
      It’s important to know the law in the England and Wales does not recognise “common law marriages,” even after 16 years of cohabitation. This means that you don’t have the same legal protections a divorcing couple would have when it comes to dividing assets or seeking financial support from each other.
      As your main asset is the jointly owned home, we’d need to check whether you own the property as joint tenants, where both owners have equal rights to the whole property and it automatically passes to the surviving owner upon death, or tenants in common, where each owner holds a specific share of the property that can be passed on to beneficiaries of their choice.
      If you are joint tenants, you both own the entire property equally, and severing this agreement might be worth considering so you each have a defined share. This also ensures that your portion can be passed on to someone of your choice through your Will, rather than it automatically going to your ex-partner. 
      This is a lot to process, but knowing where you stand legally is a crucial first step. 
      Read more about property and separation: Buying a home with my partner: What if we split?
      Q: We’ve decided on a 50/50 parenting arrangement after separation. How can we ensure this works well for the children in the long term?
      A: It’s commendable that you’ve come together to agree on shared parenting. Having both parents equally involved can help give your children a sense of stability as they adapt. 
      Once you’ve agreed detailed arrangements for your children between yourselves, we recommend that you draw up a parenting plan to refer back to if needed. This is a written agreement that can outline a range of decisions including:

      How you will rotate childcare.
      Who picks the kids up from school.
      How holidays and birthdays will be managed.
      Decisions about school and health.
      How costs and expenses will be split.
      Parenting approach and boundaries.
      How often you will review the parenting plan.
      Any detail that is important to you and your family.

      This plan helps minimise misunderstandings or disputes further down the line and helps to ensure everyone involved knows what to expect.
      Q: What are our options if we can’t see eye-to-eye?
      Even with the best intentions, disputes can arise and create barriers to amicable agreements.
      If you and your ex are not able to resolve issues between yourselves, family mediation can help. With the support of an impartial mediator, you can talk matters through and find solutions collaboratively. If mediation is unsuccessful, you can enlist the help of a Family Lawyer who will negotiate on your behalf and work to forge a plan that meet’s your child’s needs.
      Where issuing court proceedings is the only way to find a viable resolution, your lawyer can help you apply for a Child Arrangements Order through the court. This means a judge will decide where the children will live and how much time they spend with each parent, making it a last resort when all other avenues have been exhausted.
      It’s never easy, but being proactive about planning can prevent unnecessary distress for children and parents alike.

      Q: We want to keep the house and ‘birdnest’ so the children can stay in their home. Is this realistic? 
      A: Birdnesting, where the children stay in the family home and the parents take turns living there, can provide a sense of stability for the kids when other aspects of their life are changing. It means they can stay in familiar surroundings, which can be incredibly reassuring.
      However, this long-term arrangement comes with challenges, especially financially. It’s likely you will would need to maintain three homes: the family home and each of your separate living spaces. This could place a significant financial burden on both of you. Plus, over time, things may change, new relationships, different financial circumstances, or just the toll of maintaining such an arrangement long-term can make it difficult. 
      A practical solution would be to review the arrangement regularly. If it becomes too challenging, it’s important to have a plan in place to reassess the situation. Maybe you decide together when the children reach a certain age to move towards a more traditional arrangement. Flexibility will be key here. 
      Q: What about child maintenance or financial support, how does that work? 
      A: Child maintenance is handled by the Child Maintenance Service (CMS) in most cases, which ensures both parents contribute to the children’s expenses. Since you’ve agreed on 50/50 parenting, maintenance may not be necessary unless one of you earns significantly more than the other. In that case, adjustments could be made to ensure the children’s needs are met. There is a useful government tool to help you calculate child maintenance and ensure your children continue to get the right financial support as they grow up.
      Many parents decide to agree that additional payments, such as the cost of extra-curricular activities, are met jointly or in proportion with each parent’s respective income. 
      It’s worth noting that because you’re not married, there’s no right to spousal maintenance. However, if one parent struggles to meet the children’s basic needs using their own resources and child maintenance payments, they can apply for financial support under Schedule 1 of the Children Act. 
      Q: As we separate, should we make a legal agreement to protect ourselves and the children?
      A: Yes, I would highly recommend drafting a detailed separation agreement. This can outline how you’ll handle day-to-day financial responsibilities, maintenance of the family home, who can and cannot stay at the property, and how decisions about the children will be made. While this type of agreement isn’t strictly legally binding, courts often take it into account if disputes arise later. It also serves as a helpful guide to avoid misunderstandings. 
      It’s a good idea to include some flexibility and provision for review of the agreement. Life changes – whether it’s finances, living arrangements, or new relationships – so it’s important to have clauses that allow you to review, adjust, and even end, the agreement as needed. For example, you might decide to sell the family home in the future, and having a clear plan for how that will be handled could prevent conflicts when the time comes. 
      Understanding the broader impact of separation
      Separating after such a long time, especially when you share children, is an emotional and complex process. You’re not just navigating the practical aspects of splitting assets and parenting, but also dealing with a huge emotional shift in your family’s life. 
      Being mindful of the toll this takes on you all means that clear communication and careful planning will be your strongest tools. The goal is to find solutions that work for everyone, allowing your children to feel supported and secure while giving you both the space to move forward with your lives. 
      Summary of recommendations for separating parents

      Legal advice on home ownership: Determine if you own the house as joint tenants or tenants in common. If it’s joint tenants, consider severing the tenancy to formalise each partner’s share, which will protect you legally in the future. 
      Parenting plan: Formalise your 50/50 arrangement with a detailed parenting plan. This will help reduce misunderstandings and create stability for your children. 
      Financial feasibility of birdnesting: Regularly assess whether maintaining multiple homes is financially sustainable. Consider creating a separation agreement that allows for periodic reviews of this arrangement. 
      Separation agreement: Draft a separation agreement that includes financial responsibilities, maintenance of the family home, and a plan for future changes such as selling the property or new relationships. 
      Mediation for disputes: If disagreements arise, mediation can be an effective and less stressful alternative to court. It’s often less adversarial and can help keep focus on the children’s wellbeing. Do consider seeking legal advice during the mediation process.

      Separation FAQs
      Q: Will a separation agreement protect us if we fall out in the future? 
      A: While it’s not legally binding, courts often respect separation agreements if they are clear and agreed upon by both parties. Having a structured plan in place can prevent misunderstandings and disputes in the years to come. 
      Q: What happens if our financial situation changes, and we can’t afford the birdnesting arrangement anymore? 
      A: It’s important to include a clause in your separation agreement that allows for regular reviews of the birdnesting arrangement. Doing this means that if the situation becomes unaffordable, you can renegotiate or bring the arrangement to an end. 
      Q: We’re trying to avoid court. What should we do if we can’t agree on something? 
      A: Mediation is usually a great tool when discussions break down. It’s less confrontational than going to court and can help you resolve disputes in a more collaborative, and cost-effective way. It’s vital to also get independent legal advice to ensure that you understand your rights. 
      The process of separating is undoubtedly challenging on many fronts but by seeking the right guidance and taking these practical steps, you can help reduce the strain on both you and your children.  
      It’s about balancing the need for fairness and financial security, sensitively managing the emotional impact of unmarried separation, all while prioritising the needs of your children. By keeping things constructive and focused on reaching workable solutions for the future, you can navigate this transition as smoothly as possible.  
      Useful links
      Cohabitation rights and separation

      How to successfully co-parent More

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      Cuffing Season – Should I have a post-divorce festive fling?

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      In the era of social media, and the Tik Tok generation, a lot of interesting terminology has come to the fore, particularly around relationships. ‘Cuffing Season’ gained traction in the mid-2010s and is coming back into use.
      The term is related to being ‘cuffed’ or tied down. It refers to the autumn and winter seasons where single people choose to have a short fling so they can have companionship for the colder months. Once 15th February (the day after Valentine’s Day) rolls around, it’s time to move on and the brief relationship comes to an end. If you’re divorced, this might seem tempting, but there are some things to be aware of before you get whisked away.
      We’ve all seen the movies where the single asks their best friend (or a complete stranger!) to pretend to be their partner for Christmas, or Valentine’s Day. Hollywood would have us believe that it is inevitable that the protagonist and their ‘holi-date’ fall in love. However, this is not always reality, and cuffing season can have its downsides, especially when you’ve been through divorce or a breakup.
      The Emotional Side
      If you have recently gone through divorce or a breakup of a relationship, you’re likely to be feeling a range of different emotions. Loneliness and fear of being alone after an important relationship can be a motivation for seeking out a short-term relationship and someone to spend the colder months with. There is a romanticism attached to the winter and festive season, and if you’re recently single you may feel this all the more strongly.
      However, a relationship purely for the sake of it is unlikely to make you happy in the long run.
      Dating after divorce can be a great way to move forward with your life and rebuild your self-confidence. There might even be a sense of control over the experience as you know there is a definite end point, and you don’t have to get too serious!
      But it can also be problematic. Even though it can be fun, you might still experience anxiety about a fling or get more invested than you planned to. You might end up feeling more pressure and stress than you did in being single and wanting a relationship.
      A divorce coach can help you navigate the emotional complexities of a breakup, with a view for the future and potentially dating again. We have a number of partner divorce coaches who will help you build your goals and plan what you want out of the next stage of your life. If you want to start dating again, but don’t know where to begin, a dating coach is a great place to start.

      The Legal Side
      Finances
      If you are divorced, and you’ve received your final order, you are legally no longer tied to your ex-spouse. You are free to date whoever you want, and to get married again if you wish. If you are going through the divorce process but have not yet been granted your final order, you cannot legally remarry, but you can date.
      However, if you have not got a financial consent order which legally severs your financial ties with your ex, you may need to be more careful. Even if you are divorced, your ex can still bring financial claims if you do not have a financial consent order granted by the court. This means if you receive any significant gifts, finances, or even move in with a new partner, your partner could ask you for a share.
      Equally, if you are in the midst of negotiating your financial settlement, moving in with a new partner may mean that their finances and assets are taken into account in your settlement. This can make you artificially wealthier than you are in reality, and you may end up paying more to your ex.
      Living with a new partner can cause complexities when it comes to the laws around cohabitation. Cohabitees are not viewed in the same way as married couples under English and Welsh law, and you have very few rights if you break up.
      Children
      Children are often at the heart of divorce disputes. Where parents can agree amicably, an informal parenting plan can be put in place, agreed together. If this is not possible, the court may make a legally binding child arrangements order which parents must abide by.
      In many such agreements, whether formal or informal, there can be an arrangement on introducing children to new partners. This may be that you have to wait a certain amount of time after you first start dating, or your new partner must be introduced to your ex before they meet your children.
      If you get into a short-term relationship, especially if you know there is an end date already in place, this can be difficult to navigate where children are concerned. Introducing a new partner for a brief amount of time can be confusing and upsetting for children and it is important that you manage the situation carefully. You may find it easier to not bring the new partner into their lives at all!
      How can a lawyer help?
      An expert family lawyer can advise you on the ins and outs of a new partner. If you are negotiating your financial settlement, they can give guidance on what to do to ensure the settlement is correct and fair. They can advise on best practise when it comes to child arrangements, too.
      Family lawyers are there to facilitate mediation or other non-court dispute resolution methods, so you can work matters out smoothly with your ex. Some of our lawyers at Stowe are also trained mediators.
      Seek expert advice if you’re unsure on the legalities of a new relationship, particularly if you decide to move in with a new partner as there are a number of considerations to be aware of with cohabitation.
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      A Beginner’s Guide to Divorce

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      The thought of divorce, and all it entails, can be overwhelming, whether you made the decision to end your marriage, or it was made for you.
      There are so many things to consider, aside from the straightforward legal process of getting divorce, including separating finances, and making child arrangements. On top of the practical elements, there is the deeply emotional side of divorce.
      For ease, we refer to marriage, divorce, and ex-spouse, but the same applies to ending a civil partnership with dissolution.
      We explore all this in depth in our How To Handbook: A Beginner’s Guide to Divorce.
      How to get divorced?
      The legal process of ending your marriage is the same for everyone, and unfortunately there is no quick way of doing it. You need to apply for divorce online (or send the form via post). You can do this as a sole applicant, or jointly. Once you have both acknowledged the application, you have a 20-week cooling-off period.
      After this, you apply for your Conditional Order (previously the Decree Nisi), which means the court approves your divorce. Once this has been granted, you have another 6 week wait until you can apply for your Final Order (previously Decree Absolute). When the family court grants this, your divorce is finalised, and your marriage is legally dissolved.
      Whilst this seems like a long time, it is a good opportunity to get all your arrangements sorted for life post-divorce. Most couples use this time to negotiate their finances and get a financial consent order drafted, to be approved by the court.
      Arranging your finances in divorce
      Money is often one of the most problematic aspects of divorce. However, whilst it can be an area of dispute, there are methods of negotiating a financial settlement amicably. For example, some couples use mediation, or another form of alternative dispute resolution.
      Our Divorce Calculator can give you an initial idea of what you might receive in a financial settlement based on the information you input. However, it is important to discuss your arrangements with a family lawyer, and a financial adviser if necessary.
      It is highly recommended that you get what is known as a financial consent order in place before you are granted a final order and your divorce is finalised. There are several risks to not doing this, including leaving yourself vulnerable to future financial claims from your ex.
      A financial consent order explains how your money, property, pensions, and other joint and personal assets will be separated after divorce. A court needs to approve the consent order, and it is important that the document is drafted by an expert family lawyer.

      Child arrangements
      Making child arrangements can be emotionally and practically taxing. It is always preferable that separating parents negotiate a parenting plan between themselves, although you can always seek legal support for this.
      If you are unable to make arrangements between yourselves, you may need a form of dispute resolution, or court intervention.
      A child arrangements order is a court order which explains the agreements made by the parents on who is responsible for the child, where they will live, and time spent with each parent. It is a legally binding order.
      Emotional wellbeing during divorce
      Divorce is rarely a walk in the park. It is important that throughout the process, and beyond, that you seek emotional support if and when you need it.
      This can be in a form to suit your needs, for example therapy or counselling, or asking for help from your GP.
      Divorce coaching is a great, and tailored, support system for those in pre-divorce stages, throughout the divorce process and afterwards. A divorce coach works alongside your legal team to provide emotional and practical help.
      You can find out more about divorce coaching, and our Stowe Family Law partner divorce coaches here.
      Most people are ‘new’ to divorce. Our Beginner’s Guide to Divorce Handbook is an in depth resource to help you get started, give insight into the various obstacles you might come across and guidance on where to find help. We cover how to choose a lawyer, the legal process of divorce, negotiating finances, child arrangements, emotional support as well as debunking divorce myths.
      Download the guide here.
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      Navigating the Conversation: Telling Your Children About Your New Partner After Divorce

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      Chloe O., one of our partner divorce coaches, discusses how to tell your children about your new partner after divorce.
      Divorce can be a challenging and emotionally taxing experience for parents and children alike. Amidst the changes and transitions, one delicate conversation arises: how to tell your children that you have met someone new. This pivotal discussion requires sensitivity, honesty, and a deep understanding of your children’s emotions. Here are some strategies to help you navigate this conversation with care.
      Don’t rush it
      Avoid introducing your new partner to your children right away. Remember that your children have already experienced a lot of changes in their family setup and stability is very important for them. Take time to build a strong foundation in your relationship before involving the children. It may be very exciting at first to have met someone new, but your children might still be adapting to their post-divorce family life and may require more time. If this is truly someone you intend to stay with, then waiting a few more months before introducing them won’t make a big difference. Once you do decide to take that step, respect your children’s pace in accepting your new partner. Understand that they may need time to process the news and adjust to the changes.
      Similarly, the first introduction should be kept short and informal. Take your time in expanding the amount of time the children spend with your new partner. Instead, try to use the time when they are with their other parent to focus on your love life and keep your parenting time to concentrate on the children. Steps such as your partner staying overnight when the children are at your house or going away on holidays together will need to be carefully considered and introduced only when the children have fully adapted to the new situation.
      Plan it properly
      Make sure you do things in the right order. If you are able to, the best approach would always be to speak to your ex first to align on the best approach for breaking the news. Discuss whether they want to be present when you tell the children. One of the pieces of advice I give to my clients as part of the divorce process is to establish some ground rules with regards to how new partners will be introduced. Must the relationship be of a certain duration? Does your ex get to meet the person first? How soon after the introduction will your new partner spend the night at your house or go on holidays with you and your children? If these are areas for concern, establishing a reciprocal code of conduct for these matters can help avoid conflict later on.
      As with any important conversation, you will want to make sure you consider the best time for it. This is both the best time of day/week and the best time in your child’s life. If they are going through a hard time at school for example, it may be worth waiting a few more weeks before speaking to them. In general, it is good advice to avoid discussing these topics during or immediately after significant events such holidays or birthdays. Ensure that everyone is in a calm and relaxed state of mind, free from distractions and interruptions.
      The place where you choose to have this conversation and who will be present are also important factors to consider when planning for this announcement. In general, it is best to try to keep things informal rather than set up a special occasion for the big reveal.
      Last but definitely not least, you’ll want to spend some time thinking through what exactly you want to say. Practicing with a friend can be helpful. As a Divorce Coach, I often practice role playing with clients to help them prepare answers to various possible questions or reactions from the children. In defining the words you want to use, you’ll want to consider various factors such as the children’s age, how they were affected by the divorce, how long you have been separated from their other parent, etc.

      Be honest and direct
      When discussing your new relationship, honesty is paramount. Be upfront with your children about your feelings and intentions. Use age-appropriate language and avoid hiding or sugar-coating the truth. However, refrain from divulging unnecessary details that may overwhelm or confuse them. Once again, making sure your message is fully thought through will really matter. If there is a very large age gap between you children, you may want to speak to them separately, albeit as close to each other as possible, to be able to address the specific concerns they have at their various ages.
      In the preparation phase, you will have prepared possible answers to questions and concerns your children might raise. It is absolutely acceptable to not have the answers to all their questions, and to say so! Being truthful and open is what matters most as it will make them feel comfortable with revisiting the subject later and sharing their feelings. Remember, though that you are not asking your children for permission here, you are informing them of a new situation. They will need to understand that the new relationship is a choice you have made and that it remains entirely your choice.
      Validate their feelings and reassure them
      As with the announcement of the divorce itself, your main objective is to make your children feel safe in light of this new change to their life. No matter how they react, acknowledge and validate your children’s emotions. Understand that they may experience a range of feelings, including confusion, anger, sadness, or even excitement. Encourage open communication and assure them that their feelings are valid and respected. Create a supportive environment where your children feel comfortable expressing their thoughts and asking questions. Be receptive to their feedback. Address any concerns or apprehensions they may have with empathy and understanding.
      Keep in mind that a moment that you may have spent several months planning for might end up feeling anti-climactic. You may have had months to process this latest change to your family life, but your children are only at the beginning of that journey. There is a strong chance they might not say much at first and may need some time to process before they ask any questions. Once you have explained the situation to them, whether they choose to discuss it further or not, make sure you leave the door open for questions later, when they feel ready.
      Through the words you choose and the way you position the new person, focus on reassuring your children that your love for them remains unchanged. Emphasise that your new relationship does not diminish the love and bond you share with them. Offer reassurance that they will always be a priority in your life.
      Avoid pushing your new partner onto them
      One last piece of advice: try to avoid setting up your new partner as someone they are going to love. While you clearly love that person, your child may initially reject them. Avoid phrases that suggest that they are expected to love this person the same way you do. Even if you really want them to like them, you are trying to avoid placing undue pressure on your children to feel attachment to a new parental figure. They will already instinctively know that you care for this person and that you ideally want them to have a good relationship, there is no need to point it out.
      Finally, it is always recommended to be careful with your words and actions so that your children don’t feel like your new partner is in any way replacing their other parent. Stay away from terminologies such as “step-father” or “step-mother” until the children choose to use them, and no matter how serious the relationship gets, don’t make them call your new partner “Mum” or “Dad”. The objective here is to avoid pressuring them to embrace your relationship and to allow them to express their thoughts and concerns openly.
      Conclusion
      Telling your children about your new partner after divorce is a significant milestone in your journey as a family. Approach the conversation with sensitivity, honesty, and empathy. Validate your children’s feelings, reassure them of your love, and respect their pace in accepting the changes. By fostering open communication and creating a supportive environment, you can navigate this transition with care and compassion, strengthening the bond within your family along the way.
      More about Chloe
      Chloe O is a Certified Divorce Coach and conflict resolution specialist. She works with her clients to support them through the ups and downs of divorce, helping them to part ways more peacefully in order to preserve their children’s and their own wellbeing. Chloe offers a free discovery call for new clients, so don’t hesitate to get in touch if you want to discuss your specific situation and challenges.
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      Does divorce affect your right to ‘sharent’?

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      Sharenting after divorce
      Harmless sharing or a breach of privacy? In this current era of social media, most of us have seen online content featuring other people’s children. Celebrities, influencers, family, friends, and even distant acquaintances, document details of their home lives and the children they’re raising via photos, videos and updates, often referred to as ‘sharenting’.
      We’ve been documenting life long before social media. However, the widespread cultural norm of sharing our lives online means that what would previously have been treasured photo albums, family footage and diaries, are now permanent, publicly accessible, digital footprints.
      Abi Jones, Associate and member of the South West & Wales family law team at Stowe, explores the debate further and looks at how divorce can affect your right to share your children on social media.
      Where do you draw the line?
      Maybe you’re marking your kid’s birthday with a nostalgic roundup of photos, sharing the obligatory ‘first day back at school’ snap, or posting snippets of your family holiday. Sharing on Instagram or Facebook is a way of recording these moments for posterity and letting others share in your joy.
      But what one parent considers appropriate, the other might feel less comfortable with. Coparents with differing views about sharenting can find navigating the question of how much to share of your chid online, tricky.
      The process of divorce or separation can widen the gap between your views and nudge you into addressing how best to manage your child’s online presence.
      So, what can you do if you and your ex-partner disagree about how much to share online about your kids?
      When you and your ex disagree about sharenting
      Formal agreements about how parents will care for their children after they’ve split up are usually made using a child arrangements order, a legal order made via the family court.
      However, child arrangements order don’t usually address the boundaries that separated parents set for sharing information about their children online.
      The family court isn’t there to enforce uniform parenting styles. Its role is to ensure that parenting meets a basic minimum standard and that each party has an arrangement that prioritises the children’s well-being—emotionally, physically, and psychologically—and supports their relationship with each parent.
      However, if one party raises concerns about what is being shared on social media by the other parent, the court may have a view on whether it is appropriate and whether it should continue.
      How could Sharenting be included in a Child Arrangements Order?
      It’s possible to include agreed sharenting boundaries in a Child Arrangements Order as either a recital, featuring as a condition of contact, or in extreme circumstances it may be included within a Prohibited Steps Order where the online sharing is deemed as particularly detrimental.
      What if you or your ex ignores the agreed sharenting boundaries?
      The implications of somebody breaching the terms of a Child Arrangements Order or Prohibited Steps Order would depend on the circumstances of the agreement.
      For example, divorced parents include restrictions for sharing content about their children online in their Child Arrangements Order, then years later return to court to amend their order to suit their child’s evolving needs. If during proceedings it emerges that one parent violated the agreement, this breach could affect the court’s perception of that parent and have implications for them as the look to make future child arrangements.
      Balancing parental rights over children’s right to privacy
      There’s ongoing debate about the child’s right to privacy, and whether children should be posted online before they can decide for themselves.
      Parents have the authority to make decisions for their children until they turn 16, when they’re typically considered competent enough to make decisions independently. However, there’s a delicate balance between parental decisions and respecting the child’s right to privacy.
      These competing rights often clash, and there’s currently no clear-cut answer. Ultimately, those with parental responsibility must exercise discretion in what they share online about their child.
      Legalities of sharing social media content without a minor’s consent
      Establishing whether the content shared about a child is appropriate can be challenging for the court but if deemed inappropriate, they may order the content to be removed.
      In some jurisdictions, children who reach maturity have taken their parents to court for breaching their human rights through “sharenting,” but it would be up to the child to take legal action later.
      Other concerns about sharenting
      For the cautious, sharenting poses safeguarding concerns including child exploitation, risks related to facial recognition, identity theft and deep fakes, nefarious use by criminals and security risks like tracking via information shared about home and school locations.
      Other significant considerations include whether it’s ethical to post content about your child online without their consent, and impinge on their human right to privacy. Not to mention how sharing their personal lives might make them feel now, and in the future.
      Get in touch
      If you and your ex would like to look into making a a formal agreement about sharing your children on social media, our family law team can help you. Get in touch using the details below. More

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      How to support teenagers through divorce

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      It’s common to worry about how divorce or separation will affect your children, particularly teenagers. Adolescents are already experiencing a natural stage of transformation, so how does divorce affect teenage children?
      Reassuringly, when parents show unwavering love for their child and continue to work together to prioritise the wellbeing of their family, teenagers can adapt to their new family dynamic over time, and thrive.
      In this article, we share advice to help you support your teenage children through your divorce or separation.
      Navigating divorce or separation with teenage children
      Divorce is an unsettling time for any family, but with teenagers’ growing maturity and burgeoning independence, their experience of divorce is different when compared to younger children.
      Teenage independence
      One of the most significant aspects of managing divorce with teenagers is that unlike younger children, their relative maturity means they can form complex views and assert their wishes.
      This can make things challenging as divorcing parents. For example, it means you may see a wider range of emotions compared to younger children, your teenage child might draw conclusions that aren’t based on your family’s reality, and they’re likely to have friends whose parents have separated, which can influence what they expect will happen.
      Telling your teenage child you’re divorcing
      The way you approach conversations with teens about divorce can influence how they take the news and begin to process it.
      Some teenagers may recognise that their parents’ relationship has been under strain, while others may be oblivious. Either way, the news that you’re planning to divorce can still come as a total surprise.
      Here are some suggestions for discussing divorce with teens:

      Share the news together as parents to show you’re still united as parents
      Be honest and upfront
      But spare them unnecessary detail about their parents’ relationship struggles
      Choose a suitable time to discuss divorce, free of distraction
      Don’t leave it until the last minute to tell them or wait until significant changes happen
      Provide detailed information about how the divorce will affect their life
      Explain things in full so they don’t have to fill in the gaps themselves
      Pitch the conversation at the right level for them; don’t dumb down or over-complicate
      Be open to answering teens’ questions
      Prepare yourself for a more self-centered response than younger children
      Give teens space to process their feelings
      Avoid pushing them to talk before they’re ready
      Expect possible boundary testing but maintain consistent rules
      Maintain normalcy in your teens’ routine to provide stability
      If changes are necessary, like moving to a new home, transition gradually
      If a move requires changing schools, consider finishing the term or school year first
      Map out a plan for holidays and special occasions so they can prepare for changes
      Encourage your teen to express their emotions and offer them a safe space to do
      Be present with them as much as you can, to reinforce your ongoing support.

      Seeing separation from their perspective
      Taking the time to see things from your teenager’s perspective is important.
      Avoid second guessing how they feel and instead give them the space to tell you truthfully, even if it’s not what you expect to hear.
      Emotions can range between anger and blame, to feelings of guilt and grief, or even relief. Acknowledge and validate all their feelings.
      Reassure them it’s not their fault
      Children and young people often blame themselves when things go wrong. They might believe the separation wouldn’t have happened if they were different or that they could have prevented it by acting differently.
      Assure them it’s not their fault; children are never responsible for their parents’ divorce or separation.
      Tackle issues that affect them directly
      Divorce is likely to raise significant questions for your teenager like with whom, and where, they will live. Respond to these concerns in full to avoid doubt and unnecessary worry.
      Even if the future outcome is still unknown, let them know when a final decision is likely to be reached and be clear about what the interim plans are.
      Reassure your teenager that they will still see both parents regularly.
      Considering their wishes
      Depending on their age, you might want to discuss future living arrangements with your child, allowing them to choose who they live with. This can spare older teenagers from living between two homes, a common solution for younger families.
      However, be clear that your child will maintain regular contact with both parents.
      Make space for difficult conversations
      Children often experience conflicting emotions during their parents’ separation, and this can be difficult for all involved.
      They may take sides, feeling protective of one parent and angry with the other, or they may even hold themselves responsible.
      Avoid pressuring them to make sense of it all quickly, instead allow them the space to process their feelings at their own pace, with your support.
      Minimise confusion by addressing their concerns directly and fully, in an age-appropriate way.
      Remember, you’re the adult 
      With the best will in the world, you can’t anticipate exactly how your child will process the news of your divorce. Whichever way they react, try to stay non-judgemental and remember all feelings are valid – even if they’re different to yours.
      It’s easy to feel hurt or frustrated when met with insults or silence from your teenager, but it’s essential for parents to remain the grownups in the situation.
      This means refraining from expressing your own frustration or anger at their reaction, and instead maintaining open communication and offering reassurance and guidance.
      Additionally, as the parent, you are responsible for making the effort to remain engaged and connected to your teenagers during and after divorce. Even if they are less enthusiastic while they adjust, keep trying.
      How will divorce affect our teenage children? 
      In some cases, divorce can affect other aspects of a teenager’s life including education, relationships, and wellbeing. As parents, it’s important to be attuned to potential changes as your family transitions to your new normal.
      Divorce and separation are common. By cooperating with your coparent and continuing to put the needs of your children first, you can help your teen navigate all the challenges.
      Kids are resilient, right?
      We often hear how resilient and adaptable children are, and that can certainly be true.
      But while teenagers appear to be coping, deflection or avoidance can be a valid reaction in itself.
      They may not react to divorce in the same manner as young children and adult children of divorce, but teenagers’ emotional experience shouldn’t be overlooked.
      How to support your teenager through your divorce
      Despite the challenges, there are ways that parents can help their teenage children cope with divorce. Open communication, consistency, and maintaining a supportive and loving environment are key.
      However, managing divorce with teenage children requires empathy and patience, not always easy when you’re dealing with your own feelings about the split.
      With your support. parents can help their teenagers navigate the difficult transition and emerge strong on the other side.
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      Family Court Fees to Rise

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      The Family Court fees are expected to rise soon, as a result of the Government’s proposal that court fees should increase by up to 10% in 2024. It is anticipated that these changes will happen in April 2024.
      The Ministry of Justice has stated that ‘implementing increases to court and tribunal fees is vital to our ongoing work to protect access to the courts for all those who seek justice.’
      The aim is to ensure that the courts can be properly resourced, as the increases will generate between £34 million and £42 million a year.
      Court fees have not increased since 2021, and the incoming change is to ensure that the courts can keep pace with increased costs, as well as improving service and reduce the taxpayer’s costs. The increased income will also support in subsidising the cost of the free services offered by the family courts.
      Prospective changes will include changes to the cost of getting a divorce or civil partnership dissolution, as well as price increases for child arrangements orders, financial orders that are not by consent, and applications for parental orders.
      Below we break down the changes.
      When the changes come in, the cost of a divorce/civil partnership dissolution application is set to rise from £593 to £652.
      Child arrangements orders will also see an increase in cost, rising from £232 to £255. Child arrangements orders are put in place by the court to set out responsibilities regarding children, including their living arrangements and their contact with both parents.
      Other children issues will also see the same cost increase, including orders such as Specific Issue Orders, Prohibited Steps Orders and Special Guardianship Orders, as well as applications for parental orders.
      The cost of an application for adoption, or permission to apply for adoption will rise from £183 to £201.
      A financial order application, not by consent, will see a cost rise from £275 to £303.
      In addition, financial consent orders are set to rise from £53 to £58.
      The Government website has a full breakdown of all the fee changes. More